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When you think about giving gifts to older family and friends you may not automatically think high tech but there is some nice new technology out there to help seniors age in place, stay healthy, and maintain independence.  And isn't that better than another bar of scented soap.  Here are three of our favorites.

1. VTech's CareLine phone -- could be useful. The VTech has large buttons and a visual ring to help with vision, hearing, and dexerity issues.  But my favorite feature is the photo speed dial to make it easy for seniors to reach out to caregivers and family without having to remember the every changing phone numbers of a younger generation.  Seniors seeking to remain independent need help finding the right people at the right time. Studies also show a strong correlation between staying connected to others and the health of older adults. A Harvard University report said odds of mental decline doubled for seniors with no social ties compared to those who had frequent contact with relatives and friends or participated in social activities. Researchers in another study found individuals with a rich social network lived at least 1.6 years longer than their peers. The ability to connect easily increases safety and health.

2. The FitBit is a nice tool that allows someone to track their activity levels and sleep patterns.  With encouragement to get active and move and useful information on sleep issues, it can be a real boon to seniors trying to stay active to maintain their health and independence.  Seniors can also easily share their progress and challenge each other with online applications and encouragement.

3. Failing to take medications properly is one of the biggest health risks seniors' face.  Failure to properly manage medications is such a common cause of temporary mental incapacity that as a Guardian ad Litem for seniors I am trained to look for it in every case.  It is also one of the reasons why there is a death in American from accidental overdoses of prescription drugs in America every 19 minutes.  Want to help avoid that with seniors in your life.  There is an app for that.  Irody is a smart phone or tablet application that records medication prescriptions, gives reminders to meds, and can identify medications visually for patients confused about which pill to take. 

At Phinney Estate Law we are always seeking ways to help Seniors maintain their sense of independence and dignity while helping families cooperative manage the challenges that can come with aging.  A good estate plan that includes complete powers of attorney and an advanced health care directives is one of the most powerful tools seniors and their families can use to meet those goals but we encourage families to look for other tools as well and technology is an overlooked option.  For more information on aging in place technology check out this dedicated blog.  And remember, an estate plan makes an unique and useful gift too!  To find out more or to schedule a free half hour consultation, contact us at info@phinneyestatelaw.com or (206) 459-1908.

 
 
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Every year the YWCA Downtown Shelters hosts upwards of 120 homeless children on Christmas Eve and for the last five years Phinney Estate Law's annual toy drive has been the main source of toys for those children.  The 2012 drive starts today.

If you would like to participate, please bring a new, unwrapped present for a child age 2 to 18 to our office at 751 N 75th Street, Seattle, Washington.   You can call ahead to make sure someone will there at (206) 459-1908.  Last year we were able to collect more than 80 toys and we are hoping to raise 100 this year.

 
 
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Mae's Cafe and the Greenwood Senior Center invite the community to this month's Alzheimer's Cafe at the cafe at 6412 Phinney Ave. N, Seattle, WA on November 13th from 3:30-5:00.  This monthly event allows individuals with memory loss and their care givers an opportunity to get out and socialize in a safe and non-judgmental environment and get support from the community and those in similar situations.  There is no cost other than food ordered.  For more information call Social Worker Carin Mack at 206-297-0875 or visit the GSC website.

 
 
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On November 8th & 9th we had some technical difficulties with our website and email.   These issues are now resolved but if you emailed us on either of those days and have not received a response please let us know so we can ensure that your email was not lost.  Thank you.

 
 
On Friday, our family attended the Phinney Neighborhood Association's Day of the Dead Festival.  It was particularly important to Jesse this year because she lost her Great Grandma Ballnik this year. 

In addition to the face painting, sugar skulls, and tissue paper flowers, this year we also participated for the first time in the community alter.  We stared by having Jesse decorate a photo of the two great grandmothers who have died since she was born.  She found a happy photo of both and decorated it with foam flowers and colorful pompoms.  After participating in the processional we took our photo in and added it to the collection of others brought in my neighbors.  Jesse decided to leave her candle with it so it would be well lit and festive "like a birthday." 

It was clear that it meant a lot to Jesse to be able to address what was a sad and confusing event in her life in an open way in a happy, celebratory atmosphere.   It was also nice for her to see that it was an experience she was sharing with lots of neighbors.  

I would recommend this annual even to any family looking to have a nice way to acknowledge family that have passed with children.  If you are lucky enough not to have lost a loved one recently, you are welcomed to bring older family photos of long lost relatives as well. 

Our job makes us realize just how universal loss is and how ill equiped ma
 
 
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Today is Dia de los Muertos or Day of the Dead as celebrated throughout  Latin America and in communities across the United States.  The holiday is a way of celebrating and communing with those we love and have lost to death.   At Phinney Estate Law we witness first hand how dead denying our mainstream culture in America can be and the negative consequences that come from it including a lack of adequate planning and emotional isolation of survivors.  Which is why we are so happy to have a chance to join our community is celebrating this important holiday tonight at the PNA Dia de Los Muertos Festival.  The Event begins at the PNA parking lot at 5:45 and features a fun music and costume filled processional, community alter, and crafts for kids and live music.  At our house we spent the morning decorating a photo of the two important loved ones that Jesse has lost in her life, Her Great Grandmother's Ellen and Barb,  with bright colored flowers and pompoms to add to the community alter.   Great Grandmother Barb passed away just this month and it has been a hard for Jess.  She is really looking forward to having it acknowledged in a public way that is also a powerful celebration of life.  Hope you can join us!

 
 
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The Greenwood Senior Center is hosting a free class on Senior Nutrition on Thursday, October 18th, 11 am to noon.  The class will focus on the unique needs of seniors and ways to use diet to prevent disease and promote a positive lifestyle. 

The facilitator, Megan Moore RD, CD, will also be providing Free Individual Nutrition Consultations on Thursday, November 8 & December 6 between 10 am and noon.  Call 206.297.0875 for details or to make an appointment.

 
 
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Last Thursday, the Department of Homeland Security issued a letter clarifying that the definition of the phrase “family relationships” includes “long-term, same-sex partners,” and LGBT immigrants’ family relationships must be considered a relevant factor in deportation proceedings.

This doe not mean that same sex couple will be able to petition for permanent residency for their partners yet and won't be able to do so unlike the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is overturned but it will have an impact on many families.  The new policy will allow immigration officials so that they may consider LGBT immigrants’ families for purposes of exercising prosecutorial discretion in deportation proceedings. This may provide immigration protection and relief for some LGBT immigrants and their families, and prevent immigration officials from unnecessarily tearing apart bi-national same-sex couples.

Lamda Legal has created a helpful FAQ sheet on the subject.

 
 
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At Phinney Estate Law much of our work focuses on the negative aspects of aging but we also work with many older clients who remind us all the time of how amazing life can be at any age. 

In that spirit we wanted to spread the word about an upcoming film series entitled Positive Images of Aging at the Greenwood Senior Center.

The series will be the first Friday of the month at 1 pm.

October: Harold and Maude
November: Enchanted April
December: All Passion Spent. 

All are comedies and each movie will be followed by a discussion and snacks.  For more information call 206. 297.0875.

 
 
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Phinney Estate Law works with many same sex couples and understands how important passage of this referendum is for those families. The deadline is coming up for registering to vote in November for Referendum 74.   The deadline for mail in registrations is October 6th and the deadline for online registrations is October 8th.  King County tends to have a lower voter turn out percentage than other counties in part because people move here often and don't always keep their registration up to date.  We encourage everyone to double check whether their registration is current and correct.  It takes 30 seconds. You can register to vote online in minutes.